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The Art of Body Language According To Tao Of Badass

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According to dating tips from the Tao of Badass, one of the things that we take for granted is the power to communicate with body language. I think body language is stronger than words. We can control our words or at least consciously control the words we speak. But we can’t control our body language. That comes naturally with how we feel.

So it’s really important to know something about body language. You can go beyond the words to get the message. But then we have to be very careful. Body language, after all, is not an exact science. Also, body language can be learned and used in strengthening a lie.

This is what businessballs.com has to say about body language. Together with the tone of our voice, our body language accounts for over 90% of the meaning conveyed. Based on that, it does make sense to know more about body language, which is also recommended by the Tao Of Badass reviews site BehavioralEcology.

The Powerful Message of Body Language In A Date

Dr. Lillian Glass, a communication expert, shares some insights on the power of body language in a date. Starting from how a couple walk side by side to small mannerisms such as biting the lip, Dr, Glass shares the messages that weren’t spoken at all.

She analyzes the body language of the couple walking in a restaurant. I thought this was fitting because at some point we all go into a restaurant with a date.

“When they’re walking in, there’s a little bit too much distance between them and that’s not a great sign especially with a couple that’s been together for only seven months. You want to see them closer together…”

This is on the premise that the couple is still getting to know each other and there’s still a lot of hesitation.

Again, Dr. Lillian Glass analyzes the body language of the couple as they settled down on their table in the restaurant. She points to the girl with her arms crossed.

“You can see right here she’s really uncomfortable. I don’t think this is a girl that likes to eat much.”

Then she points to the feet of the couple.

“One of the things that is comfortable, their feet are pointing right towards each other. They’re really into each other. Definitely.”

Dr. Glass then tackles the eye contact between the couple. Their direct eye-contact positively connotes that they are very into each other. Here’s an interesting thing. The crossed arms of the girl totally aligns to the fact that she’s just not into food. The guy orders a tuna and the girl keeps her arms crossed and mouth closed. Interestingly though, she agrees to have the tuna.

Why It’s Good To Know A Little About Body Language

There’s no doubt that it’s good to know even just a little about body language. If words cannot be spoken, let the actions can send out the message. While on the other hand, picking up the messages from the body language can definitely show a more sensitive side according to Joshua Pellicer. Knowing even just tad bit of body language can definitely help you understand your date more. For guys, they wouldn’t end up ordering something that she doesn’t really like but refuses to say in words. For us, women, we can learn how to align our actions to our words.

Communication is definitely not just about the words spoken. If you really want to convey the right message, it definitely helps to know more about body language.

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